Avoidance Is Destroying Your Relationships
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Most men think shutting down or walking away “keeps the peace.”
It doesn’t. It abandons love.
This 3-part training shows you why you avoid, where it comes from, and the exact steps to finally stop running — so you can reclaim intimacy, respect, and truth.
Watch this video first.
Avoidance Doesn’t Protect Love. It Abandons It.
Conflict doesn’t end relationships, avoidance does.
When you shut down, walk away, or go silent, you think you’re keeping the peace. But to your partner, it feels like abandonment.
Intimacy erodes. Resentment grows. Love dies slowly.
This training shows you how to stop the cycle before it destroys connection for good.
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What You’ll Get
3 Trainings to Break the Cycle
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Training 1: Avoidance — The Silent Killer of Love
Why shutting down, going silent, or walking away erodes intimacy. -
Training 2: Why Men Run — The Wound Beneath Avoidance
Childhood, shame, and conditioning: why avoiding her is really avoiding yourself. -
Training 3: The Courage to Stay
The 3-step pathway to face conflict, reclaim intimacy, and stop abandoning yourself.
Bonus: PDF Guide “5 Signs You’re Avoiding (and What to Do Instead).”
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This is for you if...
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You’re a man who shuts down, walks away, or avoids hard conversations.
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You’re a woman trying to understand your partner’s avoidance.
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You’re a couple stuck in silence, resentment, and distance.
Whether you’re single, in a relationship, or supporting your partner — this training gives you the tools to turn conflict into deeper intimacy.
What some men have to say from working with Malcolm
Chase Cooper — From Rock Bottom to Embodied Leadership
Five months sober. A thriving business. A powerful relationship. A new man.
When Chase and I began working together a year ago, he was caught in a cycle of quiet self-destruction—running a fitness studio while battling shame, burnout, and a growing dependence on alcohol. He looked successful on the outside… but inside, he was lost, disconnected, and afraid to face the truth.
Through our work together, Chase confronted the father wound, owned his pain, and began doing the deep inner work most men avoid. Today, he stands as the leader he always wanted to be—fully embodied, emotionally present, and free.
In his words, “I’ve become the man I knew I could be—the real face of my gym, my family, and my life.”
This is what happens when a man chooses to feel, to face himself, and to rise.
Thierry shares:
Before working with Malcom, I was dealing with a lot of energy leaks—especially in my relationships with women. I felt scattered and disconnected from the man I truly wanted to be. Through our work together, Malcom helped me understand the root of these patterns and gave me practical tools to reclaim my energy and power.
WHO AM I TO TEACH THIS?
 I’m Malcolm, a men’s and couples’ coach. For years, avoidance ran my life. I grew up watching it, repeated it in my relationships, and almost lost love because of it.
Through deep inner work, shadow work, and nervous system mastery, I broke the cycle. Today, I coach men and couples around the world to do the same.
What Men Are Saying
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Trevor - Entrepreneur
Mike - Entrepreneur
Erich - Entrepreneur
Derek - financial advisor
Gerrit - business owner
Mark -Â Private Dentist & Business owner
Sebastian - Business owner
Don’t Let Avoidance Destroy What Matters Most
Every time you avoid, you abandon love.
You abandon her.
And most importantly — you abandon yourself.
Avoidance doesn’t disappear. It mutates. Into resentment, distance, shame, and broken trust.
The cycle only ends when you choose to face it.
This 3-part training is your first step to ending avoidance for good — and stepping into the man you know you can be.
